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The fact she’s whining to family about this Despicable Me Father of the Year Fairy Gru Shirt and thus turning it into your problem when those family members push you to do something that doesn’t feel right—to outright LIE—that’s ridiculous and selfish. Seriously, who does this? She’s trying to make your illness about her, and you are having a pretty understandably sketched out feeling about it as a result. This! NTA at all!!! Your time is now more limited than ever. You’re obligated to live YOUR best life and if that doesn’t include forgiving someone for deeply offending and hurting you then it doesn’t.
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I’d like to play devil’s advocate for a second. Despicable Me Father of the Year Fairy Gru Shirt The sister MIGHT only be upset because OP is dying, but if I’ve learned anything from friends and people around me dying, it’s that imminent death can really change your perspective and outlook on things, and what really matters to you (…like, say, for example, your relationship with your sister). I think it’s possible the sister might actually be looking for an honest reconciliation.